Nicola Woolcock
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As a teenage single mother and civil war refugee from Somalia, Naima Sharifdahir appeared to be doomed to academic failure.
Yet the teenager, who arrived in Britain five years ago speaking little English, achieved impressive GCSE results and now intends to become a doctor.
It was not her background or personal circumstances that held her back initially, but the disruptive behaviour and low expectations at the inner-city comprehensive that she attended. Naima, 18, said she was horrified by her classmates' attitudes at South Camden Community School in Central London and the lack of ambition that teachers had for the pupils.
“There was no focus on education,” she said. “I was used to home tutoring. Then I came to England and joined a class of more than 20 pupils trying to annoy the teacher.
“They had no respect for the teacher, who would often leave the classroom in tears. It upset and demotivated me. These students were messing it up for everyone else.
“I didn't know anything about the GCSE system when I started, and by the time I realised what was going on it was too late to do well at that school.
“The teachers would say to pupils, 'Don't try to do that, it might be too hard. Don't worry, you can get a C grade without it'.”
Naima speaks with confidence and determination. A Muslim, she wears long skirts and covers her hair when outdoors but eschews the veil and has brightly painted nails. She bounced her year-old son, Yonis, on her lap as she talked.
Her achievements confound statistics. Recent research indicated that Somali children are among the lowest achievers at school. Only a third of Somali pupils in London got five GCSEs at grade C or better last year.
Added to that is the low expectation of teenage mothers, many of whom drop out of education when they become pregnant.
Naima married at 16 but is now raising her son alone. She left school without sitting her GCSEs but read widely to improve her English.
Her tenacity and resolve then came to the fore: she overcame assumptions about young mothers by enrolling at City of Westminster College last year, when her son was two months old.
She was accepted despite eyebrows being raised when she arrived for an interview with her son.
She said: “The lady on reception just looked at me and said, 'I'm not sure they'll take you. It will be hard for you, having a child'.
“I promised I would keep up my studies and then I met my tutor who was really supportive. But she made me promise to turn up early for all my classes. There's a presumption that if you have a baby young your life is over. People asked how I was going to cope. They'd give this smile as if they thought I was dreaming.”
Naima studied for ten months, while bringing up Yonis in a council flat, before taking six GCSEs and achieving five As and a B. Today she starts A levels in chemistry, biology, maths and psychology.
While thousands of middle-class teenagers celebrated similar grades with lavish parties, or by spending money given to them as a reward for good results, Naima had a meal at her parents' house before returning to her one-bedroom flat in Somers Town, a rundown area between King's Cross and Euston stations.
She credits her parents' love and support for allowing her to pursue her ambitions: “My mother and father tried to drum into all their children's heads the importance of education. I'll always be grateful.
“They said it would be best if I went back to college so I could create a really bright future for my son and myself. My mother looked after my son while I studied, and I took over when I came home.”
She adds: “Faith is very important to me. When I realised things were falling apart it was what held me together. My religion says you should be determined and work hard, so I did.”
Naima has wanted to become a doctor since she was a child, helping to look after her younger brothers and sisters. The family left Somalia when she was six because of the civil war and moved to Kenya, before migrating to Britain seven years later.
She says her country's war is heartbreaking, adding: “It can be painful seeing people from the same country being cruel towards each other because of tribal issues. Now Britain is the closest thing I have to home.”
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well done. I hope your experience is going to encourage many other young single mothers and older ones to follow their goals. my brother went to your old school, support from home and many of his teacher's got him his 10 A-C in his GCSE's and many others who were in his year. who are now graduates.
Sarie, islington, uk
Sister am so proud of you it brought tears to my eyes. Mashallah may allah bless and guide you. I myself a single parents studing my degree in Informal Education and work part-time as Youth Worker, I must say its very hard not being able to rest after work and uni. May allah guide us all to sucess
Iman, london,
First and foremost allow me to say Congratulation to fellow sister and may Allah increase your knowledge in becoming a Doctor. I am so overwhelmed to hear about your success and am so happy that you reached your target..
Good luck to your future.
Hodan , Hornsey, london, Uk
I am very pleased for my fellow somalian sister, I myself achieved 10 A - C GCSE's and currently studying at University of the West of England. I am really dissapointed to hear these ridicilous statistics, because i am sure there are more then just a third of somali youths achieving. all the best !
Mohamed Abdullahi, Bristol,
Martin, you have missed the point completely. This is one young woman who WILL not be on benefits for the rest of her life. More stories like this should be in the papers: she is a role model for all young girls, especially those who are generally the ones who flounder in the education system.
Susaannah , Amsterdam,
Im the headteacher of Naimas old school & Im delighted by her success. But our teachers dont hold students back. All 7 Yr 13 Somali students here have just secured university places to read for degrees including biomedical science, bioveterinary science, pharmacology, politics & public health.
Rosemary Leeke, London NW1,
well done naima you have achieve something can inspire a lot somalis specailly single mother they can do it and you prove it keep up hard work.i hopea lot of themwill follow ur footstepp........
hasan, london, Great britan
I don't get where the hardship or great achievement is.
1. She has a home given to her. The rest of us have to earn money to put a roof over our heads.
2. She has two parents nearby. Many don't even have them alive.
3. They provide free childcare for her. Most people don't get that.
So what?
Laura Roberts, London, UK
"Only a third of Somali pupils in London got five GCSEs at grade C or better last year"
cheap statistics always brought in on everyhting
Look for urself I am somalian and i achieved 11 A*-C and there are probably more than a third if you keep looking.
it is all about diligence, not race
ALI, London, England
As someone who lives close to the school I am very disappointed to hear this young women's experience of the school. However, I do not think it refects the majoirty of students' views. Yes there are issues at the school. Yes there are tensions in the community. But look at the improving GCSE results
Michael, NW1 London,
I'm very pleased for this young lady and I think she's an inspiration to other people in her position and lazy, disruptive kids around her. But it would be nice if she had been a little less scathing about her school, which despite its faults, was ready to welcome her when she was in need.
Jane, London, England
Martin, LONDON
Is it not better that this young woman is actually learning and being educated rather than being a young mum on benefits for the rest of her life, typical of the young British girls in todays society that have no ambition. This girl may be an IMMIGRANT but does it matter. Well done
Jean, London, UK
Well done Naima. I'd like to help you buy textbooks when you get your medical school place. You are an inspiration, and you can do it. Good luck. Try the Royal Free, just up the road from you....
Patricia, Oslo,
Naima's experiences will hopefully inspire women of similiar socioeconomic status to fight for an education, and not settle for anything less. An education provides more opportunities to become a strong, independant woman that has the ability to support her family. Crawl back under your rock Martin.
Roberta, New York, USA
Well done, beautiful girl with inner strength and aspirations.
Naima your story is truly an inspiration and I really do hope you make it. I am certainly looking forward to the follow up of your present story. From A level all the way to MBBS.
Good luck well be with you and much love.
Farah, London, UK
My son, who went to an inner london state school, said much the same thing. Instead of showing pupils the correct way to do something they were told that it doesn't matter. It was like they didn't expect any pupils to have ambition.
Any ambition that was shown was soon quelled by the teachers.
kim, london,
im sure there are many other stories like this, why this woman in particular? Is this a message to all those single parent mothers
ALL immigrants who have come here have had to work harder than those already here....
C. Kroustis, London,
Congratulations and well done to the young lady who strived and achieved despite the obstacles. i for one wish you all the best and have every faith in your ability to achieve what you set out to achieve.
as for the haters, moaners and whiners, either put up with it or shut up!!!
Sayid Somal, London , UK
Naima is good example to our young people and I hope they will learn from her. I wish Naima and her family all the best and InshaAllah you will reach your dream. We should also be grateful to others that have welcomed their homes to us(somali) and helped us achieve better lives.
Ifrax, Georgia, USA
That's 1 asylum seeker out of around 300,000 in the last 5 years?
Well done and all, but did it need to be in the papers? I'm assuming she has social housing, child benefits so surely a more noteworthy achievment would be a working mother not on benefits doing a part time degree?
Martin, London, ENGLAND
Extraordinary people like Naima who despite adversity succeed is not surprising. Upsetting?
"..I came to England & joined a class of more than 20 pupils trying to annoy the teacher. They had no respect for the teacher...It upset and demotivated me." etc.. What a sad indictment.of a UK school!
Angela, Cambridgeshire, UK
Mark@Leeds - sorry to hear your cinycism. Her achievement should be applauded&encouraged so MORE disadvantaged youngsters/adults can do well&become good role models. She is a positive example even for our kids who take everything for granted and dont appreciate the opportunities we have in the UK
Mohammed, Peterborough, England
Excellent story I wish Naima all the best she is truly an inspiration to all those that strive rom hardship
David, London, UK
Well done to this inspirational young woman.
Our educators *must* recognise that high expectations are everything. How much longer must children endure the patronising pats on the head from the privileged people who don't think others can benefit from the education they had themselves?
Lyn, Birmingham, UK
This success does show that determination, despite the odds, will win through, but it also says that the College system does in fact work and is flexible enough to allow for achievement to all.
A hearty well done to Naima to to City of Westminster College.
Robin, London, London
Good luck and Blessings to her!
She obviously has a great deal of inner strength and intelligence and I am glad she has had the opportunity to study here in Britain.
It is women like her that hold the key to the enlightenment of humanity,
epona, Swindon, UK
This is brilliant. This is good. Naima is and will stay as a star to all the other Africans in UK.
Congratulations to her.
JB, Hargeisa,
@Mark from Leeds
What exactly does it go to show? That depsite the sorry state of schools in the UK, she has made a success of her life. I certainly hope that is what you are insinuating.
MM, Vienna,
As I've said elsewhere, the opportunity exists and what you cannot learn at school can always be filled in by good use of libraries.
Tina Jones, Dusseldorf, Germany
One example of an asylum seeker doing good and it makes the papers!!! Just goes to show really!
Mark, Leeds,
I applaud this young woman and her success. Her experience helps to highlight the tragic lack of ambition among British youngsters, who feel entitled to things they haven't earned. I wish Ms Sharifdahir all the best in the future, and I hope her peers see her for the superb example she is.
Stephanie, Bristol, UK