Has Cassandra been booted out of the magazine for more advertising space? Very unhappy. They did the same with the back of the News Review and it hasn't been nearly so good since... Come home Ariel!

Georgina, London, UK

In America nowadays the older people are Professionally more wanted because of their experience, patience and success.

The younger generations has interentet but lacks in experience & patience due running very fast & expecting quick results.

They say old is gold, the old may not be wanted in the dark, into the Parties, wine, dine & dance but in the day light to lighten the work force due their vast connections & making stable success & pofit at large with patience.

Sattar Hakim, Pomona, USA

Have you guys ever considered that you might be suffering from depression? But then again, I live in Spain.........

Elizabeth, Valencia, Spain

I can sympathize with this lady, and her great article. I was invited to a friend's 50th birthday party at the weekend which started at lunchtime. Obviously, I was obliged to stay for the BBQ which would start soon. To me, 'soon' would be about 5 p.m. at the latest. (You have to understand, that here in the US, Saturday night for ex-pats starts at 8 p.m. with Are You Being Served, and other British comedy and finishes with Only Fools and Horses. ) Unfortunately, 'soon' came at 9 p.m. By then, you can imagine the state of most of the gathering, including the host. I managed to avoid a burnt burger and an equally revolting onion ring, and made a hasty retreat. I've been told I'm boring for my attitude to nocturnal events, but to me, an evening on the couch with either a book or the remote is bliss. Thank you Cassandra.

Al, St. Petersburg, Florida, USA

Cassandra's problem is that she's not really a city girl. She should stick to the country, where the range of things people expect you to do after ten is more limited, and the range of excuses for not doing them wider.

Bill, Norfolk,

Dear Sir/Madam
In your Buisness section Nov. 11th an article on on-line dating quoted that Dating direct was the biggest dating agency in UK and part of Europes market leader Meetic. Please check out web site 'letsfixbritain.com' for comments from users of this site. Its rubbish where its almost impossible unsubscribe from membership. Your newspaper has a deserved high reputation and I hope you will do your readers a service by checking out this web-site and making a report on it. A lot of people are very frustrated with this site and it should be known what to expect when you sign-up for membership.

Regards
T o'dowd

regular reader for many years

tom dowd, sligo, ireland

please come back to the magazine, cassandra! i'm missing your neurotic self already!

Jack, York, UK

Well said and I totally agree. I have always thought sitting and thinking or reading at home are the best way to spend an evening. I am 33.

Sous, Bristol,

I have to say this is a very refreshing article to read, i am 38 and used to go out a lot in my twenties but over the past five or six years that has changed, i really can't be bothered to go out, i much prefer to have a glass of wine watch a movie or a chat show and put my feet up.
I just don't feel like going out much myself and to read an article on the thoughts of another like minded person has made me feel normal again. I was beginning to wonder if there was something wrong with me thank you-thank you-thank you... for making me feel this way...!

PM, West Sussex, UK

I was so disappointed today when I found The Sunday Times Magazine and jumped at it to try and find the cassandra article - its gone! It was the only regular thing worth reading in my view... will the article ever return?

Katie Anderson, Dumfries, Scotland

Hooray! I'm normal! It was such a relief to read this article. I hate going out in the evening and I hated it even when I was 18. Getting ready was exhausting, transport a logistic nightmare, and I was ready to crawl into bed by 10.30 pm, which ruled out any of the things my friends wanted to do. Oh, and I don't drink.

However, I'm not totally unsociable - I enjoy meeting friends for lunch. It's just this obsession with evening (or, worse still, night-time) activities which I object to. Why on earth would anyone want to be out in the dark and cold at 2 am? To say nothing of the dangers of being mugged or raped. My idea of a blissful evening has always been to lie on the sofa with a good book, followed by sleep at 11.

Alys, Colchester, U.K.

Excellent statement, i absoloutly agree. Please take it a step
further even though i am 32 yrs old. This is a stupid society
we are living in. The Notebook Age with Disco Ringtones
on your mobile. I have travelled the world and seen everything
human beings can see.

Keep on being critical:)))))

Peter Kniepkamp, London, United Kingdom

Back in the magazine please!

Mark, London,

I completely understand the joy of not going out... I now have several friends who share this view. I never see them, of course.

Annie, Emsworth,