Marina Sabisky
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Marina, 9, is one of six children in the Sabisky household. She lives in west London with her parents, Ed and Kate, and her brothers and sister: Andrew, 15, Anastasia, 12, Nicholas, 11, Richard, 6, and Christopher, 3. Marina is home-schooled with three of her siblings
I drag myself out of bed at 7.30. I hear the baby singing Sing a Song of Bincess. His name is Christopher, but we call him Cherub. I go into his bedroom and take him out of his cot. I carry him downstairs. He weighs a ton. Daddy goes off to work on his bicycle, and I have breakfast - apple juice, toast with butter and strawberry jam and a satsuma. Sadly, there are normally no croissants, which are my favourite. All my brothers and sisters wander in to eat. The Cherub starts his first breakfast, which is dry bran flakes. He's the only one to have two breakfasts, which is why he has a perfectly rounded tummy.
I put my plate in the dishwasher and sit on the stairs to read. At the moment I'm reading Blind Beauty. It's about a horse, and I've read it five times. While I am reading, Cherub and Richard play trains very seriously. With 15 minutes till work time, I put on my trousers and a top, which I like to be plain and blue. I tidy my room - I share with Richard - then brush my teeth and hair.
Seven minutes before work time, I am ready. "Marina, Anastasia and Nicholas, work time," shouts Mummy at 9. I run downstairs and begin. Unless we're working together, like spelling, history or reading a play, we're in different rooms. I sit at a table next to the dining room. No talking. I like home schooling: I do more of what I want and work with Anastasia, Nicholas and Richard. Andrew works part time at college. I started home schooling at the age of 4 3/4. I will probably go to college like my brother at 14. I don't know what subjects I'll do, but when I grow up I'd like to be a runner and keep a village shop in Dorset. I like village shops but they seem to be closing down.
First it's maths. I hate maths. It's horrible! You just write numbers down and people tell you if they're wrong or right. There's no actual story in maths. Most weeks I do a Bond Assessment - a maths test with 40 questions in it. After about 45 minutes I start English. Writing this Life in the Day is my English today.
I have also put together a newspaper, The Moon, using pens and paper, though some of the pictures are from the computer. I can type (I learnt using Mavis Beacon, who is very bossy) and I can use the internet. I also play games on it - my favourite is Bug on a Wire - and I'm writing a magazine. It has a review of my best book, Warrior Cats, an article about planets, a poem, a recipe for chocolate cake, fashion tips and What's On. It will also have my Life in the Day. I like English. I like to write stories about animals, not people. I also write poems, which are normally sad. I once wrote a funny poem about my baby brother, who loves to hear it when he is on the loo and "something is coming".
After my English, I help making flapjacks, as we are having a party soon. The best bit is eating them. Yum yum. At about 11.30, Cherub makes his porridge for his second breakfast, which he eats with banana and strawberries. Sometimes I help make lunch. Cherub likes to stir food, and when Cherub and I make a meal there's always lots of garlic in it - we love peeling it. We can make bolognese and red tuna - garlic, onion, tomatoes and tuna. We normally have lunch together in the kitchen, so it can be noisy. We eat chicken, lamb or beef casseroles and, once a week, fish. I don't mind eating it now but I used to hate it.
I then run off to do clarinet, which is very fun. I do my scales and my grade-2 pieces. Then I like to play Edelweiss from The Sound of Music and two from Andrew Lloyd Webber. I watched the choosing-a-Maria programme on TV. I thought the judges were mean to the wrong people. Clarinet is for about 45 minutes. After, I read a book, then I'm off outside. Because we live in a mews house we have no garden, so we play on the cobbles. Often Richard, Nicholas and I play spies, and we have hide-outs behind dustbins or up trees. One hide-out is big and, we pretend, invisible.
On Thursday and Friday in term time (we keep to normal school terms) my exercise fits around the drop-off and collection times of Cherub's nursery school. While he's at school, we either borrow someone's dog to walk or play tennis in a park nearby. On the other days I go to classes: ballet on Monday and Tuesday, swimming on Wednesday. Whenever I leave the house I take Piriton and two EpiPens with me because I am allergic to most nuts and sesame seeds. I normally take my food to my friends' houses. I don't like going to hospital.
Once we get home, between 5 and 7, it's tea time. We all rush to get our tea: eggs, fruit, toast or soup and chocolate cake, which Cherub loves. We used to have to call chocolate cake "the congestion charge", because if he heard it mentioned he wouldn't finish his tea. On Fridays I sit back, enjoy and think: "Aah, tomorrow is the wonderful weekend, when we shall watch TV in the evening." Very occasionally, I go out at night to the theatre. Recently I've seen Coppelia and The Wind in the Willows. I am going to see The Tempest soon. When tea is over, it's bath. I have a hair wash, clamber out and put on my pyjamas. I read my book, Tennis Shoes, about a little girl called Nicky. Sometimes she is a little like me. She is very determined and has a temper. I fall asleep thinking about the three babies I hope to have. I know they'll be Cherubs.
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If the world were full of Marinas, it would be a far better place.
April Young, St Albans, UK
I have read your âA Day in the Life Ofâ. It is much more detailed than mine! I really like your story. It has made me think a bit more about home-schooling. I think you are really lucky to be home schooled. I also like the way you spend your weekends, watching the telly and even going to the theatre! I canât help wondering, but donât you get bored staying at home all the time? Also, what is it like to be 1 in 6 children?
Lidia Fedyszyn, Salisbury, England
Wonderful !!! ( To sound of loud applause..)
Made my day, thank you. This article will now be emailed around the world. Loved the bit about "Congestion Charge".
Hugh HUBBLE, France,
wow!!! ur an amazing writer! ic ould never have written anything that good when i was 9! ive always wondered what it's like to be home schooled and thought it would be really boring but it sounds mega!
bryony, wellington, uk
hi,
I have just had my first insect(mossis) bite it is very large....of the season. It hurts and it itches,,as you well know!! Iam allergic to wasp stings. twice I have had emergency treatment. I have an epi-pen. Why are they so large?And why are they such a source of amusement? I wish others could understand this!!
Diana, Devon, UK
I wish t'were possible. This is how it should be for most - not for all.
Alas, bills, bills.
C Simpkins, Watford, Herts
What a lovely piece of work. I used to think HS is unfair on the child but as I read more and more about, I am beginning to appreciate it. It must be great to be able to spend so much time with one's family.
T, London,
Lovely, gifted child you are Marina. Tea and cherubs. Such bliss!
Adam , Austin, Texas/USA
Well done, Marina! (and I hate maths too).
I wish I could home educate my little boy, his school is awful.
Starling, Lancaster,
What a happy life. Along with most other children, I wish I was home educated!
M. J. Meldorf, Chester, United Kingdom
Marina! I loved your piece, you are a quite a writer already!
I HS my kids, and would be so proud if they could write and express the written word as eloquently as you have! Keep at it, you have a wonderful skill. I would LOVE to live a day in your life!
Kim Cosar, Norwalk, CT,USA
Well done, Marina!! *Claps* I have always wanted to go to England and you have described it to me! Now I can not wait for a chance to go there.
Wow, it sounds like a busy household! It must be fun, though. I have always wanted siblings, but I am an only child. England sounds so fun! ( Much diffrent from the United States of America, where I live.)
Molly Robitaille, Winsted, USA, CT
What a lovely description of the day. This young lady is quite a writer.
Heather Q, Virginia, USA
Im just blown away with this piece this little girls discription of her life managed to tap into a magical childlike memories we can tend to forget. She speaks in such an innocence yet manages to describe her life in a very insightful and mature way at the same time id love to see more from her.
Laura , Limerick, Ireland
Well done, Marina ! Today [ 18 Mar ] I got up early , before the paper was delivered . So , after a little Sudoku , I started to read last Sunday's Magazine and found your article fascinating , so much so that I've just emailed it to my daughter, who has a daughter of 3 and a new baby due at Easter.
Patricia Oliver, Hampton,
Well done , Marina ! I got up early today [ 18 Mar ] so until today's copy arrived , I started on last Sunday's magazine . It was fascinating to read your account , so much so that I've just emailed it to my daughter , who has a 3-year old daughter and a new son expected at Easter.
Patricia Oliver, Hampton,
What a wonderful article, you have a future as a writer.
We also homeschool and my son also really love the homeschooling better than regular school in which he was enrolled in before.
Evelyn, Ohio, USA
Your article is fantastic, Marina; well written and a joy to read. I have found myself this week re-reading it lots of times and talking to my eldest daughter who is 8 about how we could copy some of your ideas. Thank you, you have been an inspiration!
Marjory, Doncaster, UK
Wow! What a wonderful life! I love HS my boys! Isn't wonderful to learn AND be with your family?
Melynda Schudrich, New Bedford, MA
Congratulations Marina on a really good article! It sounds like it's been written by a reporter, not a 9yr old. You obviously work hard at learning new things in all kinds of ways and no doubt you will be a very interesting adult. My 15 & 13 yr old boys learn by doing projects and some online or distance learning for their home education and,like you, they also do lots of group activities outside home with other children and adults. Home education is fun and you can learn so much through approaching it through general knowledge.
I'm sure your article will prompt more people to look at HE as an option and there's a lot of helpful information on the Education Otherwise.org website.
Caroline, Winchester, UK
What a fabulous life! I look forward to reading Marina's first novel.
Sally Keefe, Lytham, UK
It's great to see HE featured in the news, we HE and love it. It is important to remember that HE takes many forms with no wrong or right way to 'do it'. Some families have a highly structured approach, others a more autonous one. The important thing is that the approach used suits the child.
Marina sounds like she is thriving and is very content.
Amanda Wheatland, Dorking, UK