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An Italian couple have been ordered to change their son's name on the ground that he would otherwise bear the stigma of “Man Friday”, the native servant in Daniel Defoe's Robinson Crusoe.
Mara and Robert Germano were taken to court after a clerk at the registry of births, deaths and marriages saw that they had registered the name of their son, now 15 months, as Venerdì (Friday). Italian registrars can reject names that they consider “ridiculous or shameful” and likely to inhibit a child's development of “serene interpersonal relationships” by making him or her the butt of jokes or abuse.
Although no objection had been raised at the time, the Appeal Court in Genoa ordered the parents to call the boy Gregorio instead, after the saint on whose feast day he was born. The couple, who run a bar in the Genoa seaside suburb of Nervi, claimed that they were being “victimised”, and that they would be allowed to call their child what they liked “if our surname was Agnelli or Totti” — a reference to the Agnelli dynasty, which owns the Fiat empire, and the AS Roma and Italy football star Francesco Totti. In the manner of footballers and pop stars, Totti and his wife have named their daughter Chanel.
The judges said in their ruling that the name Friday would “immediately be linked to Robinson Crusoe, in which Man Friday was “a figure characterised by his role of subjection and inferiority”. In Defoe's 1719 novel, the island castaway Crusoe thinks that he is the only inhabitant until he finds the footprint of a native. He saves the man from marauding cannibals and adopts him as his manservant, calling him Friday, after the day of the week when — according to Crusoe's calculations — the rescue took place. Crusoe teaches Friday English and converts him to Christianity.
The judges said that the name suggested a “wild savage” who strived in vain to attain the status of a “civilised man”. Friday was also a day associated in the Christian calendar with sorrow and penitence — as in Good Friday — and in superstition with ill luck, with Friday 17 being a day of ill omen in Italy as Friday 13 is in Britain. The court said that a first name should avoid “the unusual, the strange, the bizarre and the ridiculous”.
Paolo Rossi, the Germanos' lawyer, said that the case should never have gone to court. Other days of the week were used as names, such as Domenico (“domenica” being Sunday) and Sabato (Saturday), he said. Some names referred to the order in which children were born, such as Secondo (Second) or Ultimo (Last). There were also “exaggerated” Catholic names for girls such as Genuflessa (one who kneels) and Addolorata (sorrowful).
Mr Rossi said that the Germanos' son had been christened Friday without problems, even though Italian priests usually insist on traditional Christian names.
Mrs Germano said that they had chosen Venerdì simply “because we liked the sound of it”, and would continue to call the boy by that name even though, when he grows up, he will have to sign himself Gregorio.
Massimo Bacigalupo, Professor of Literature at Genoa University, said that the judges were being oversensitive in associating a name with a fictional character. “I am not sure how many people read 18th-century novels,” he told La Repubblica.
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20 years ago, on a Saturday afternoon in Spokane, Wa, I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. I named her Tuesday. At the age of 6 she announced she disliked her name, and requested that I call her Bubbles instead. So I did- for a week. Suddenly one morning she announced that she wanted to be called Tuesday again. Of course I complied. This happened again when she was 8 years old, only this time her name was to be "Barbie", and it lasted almost 2 weeks before she decided she wanted to be called "Tuesday" again. Each time she requested a name change, it was because someone at school teased her. I didn't worry about it too much, kids are mean, and tease each other about anything and everything. At the age of 13 I gave her the option (with no hurt feelings on my part) to legally change her name to anything she wished..... she declined. She explained that she LIKED her name, that it was different, unique. I gave her an unusual name because I wanted her to be different and unique. To stand out in life, to be strong, to hold firm to her beliefs no matter what everyone else said or did, because I wanted her to be herself. Has she suffered because of her name? I really don't think so. Has having an unusual name caused her to be strong and independent, open and accepting of diversity? I believe so. Would I name my daughter "Tuesday" again, if I could go back to the day of her birth? Definitly!
Zelina, Wilmington , Ohio, USA
It seems to be a violation of EU guaranteed rights of conscience that an Italian secular court is ordering a family to name their son, based on the Roman Catholic saint's day.
Should a secular governmental organism be instituting such a requirement?
It would seem to be preferable, if the court objects to 'Friday,' to have the family propose a name to the court, which the court could then accept or reject.
Andrew, Aberdeen, Hong Kong
I think its ridiculous, I would rather work with someone called Friday than someone called Posh. Use of the name would weed out the stupid and the eavesdroppers from the modern workplace as every time Friday loudly announced their identity over the phone at least one idiot would fail to turn up for work next day!
Dave A, liverpool, england
Lucky for Bob Geldof he didn't name his kids in Italy eh? What on earth would the registrar have made of Peaches Honeyblossom Michelle Charlotte Angel Vanessa, Fifi Trixibelle, Pixie, and Heavenly Hiraani Tigerlilly???
Those poor poor kids...
Justin Carmichael, Willenhall, West Midlands
I think it is ridicolous not to allow a couple to call their son Venerdì or Friday. First of all I agree that it is only a minority who knows about Robinson Crusoe and then Friday can also be considered a happy day being the eve of two holydays, Saturday and Sunday. For instance I have been wearibg for the last thirty years every Friday a tie decorated with glasses of beer surrounded by the initials T.G.I.F.(Thanks God is Friday).
Roberto Castellano, Salsomaggiore, Italy
After all, Freddy would sound better than Friday!
Alessandro Margiotta, Milan, Italy
Tuesday Weld Fan Club deplores Genoa Registry ban on use of Friday as first name.
Biully Sunday, Upper Jay, N.Y. USA