Murad Ahmed
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A senior judge will deliver an outspoken attack on the Government today, declaring that “all of society’s social ills” can be traced to breakdown of the family.
Mr Justice Coleridge, a Family Division judge, will give warning of an epidemic of family failures, claiming that children born into broken homes are turning increasingly to drink, drugs and crime. He will argue that the collapse of the family is as potent a threat to the country as terrorism, crime, drugs or binge drinking.
In his speech to family lawyers, the judge will say that there has been a collapse of one of the building blocks of society, and that in urban areas family life is “in meltdown or completely unrecognisable”. He will lay the blame at the “neglect” of successive governments.
The judge, who is in charge of family courts across southwest England, will say: “In some of the more heavily populated urban areas of the country, family life is, quite frankly, in meltdown or completely unrecognisable. In some areas of the country, even including the more urban parts of the sleepy West in which I operate, family life in the old sense no longer exists. So I suggest that the general collapse of ordinary family life, because of the breakdown of families, in this country is on a scale, depth and“ breadth which few of us could have imagined even a decade ago.”
The judge has presided over cases of divorce, children in care and family break-up for eight years. Last year he supervised attempts in the courtroom to negotiate a voluntary divorce settlement between Heather Mills and Sir Paul McCartney.
He will argue that he is not criticising single parents. “I am not saying every broken family produces dysfunctional children, but I am saying that almost every dysfunctional child is the product of a broken family,” he says. “And what is government doing to recognise and face up to the emerging situation? What is it doing to halt the decline or even reverse it? The answer is very little, and nothing like enough. It is fiddling whilst Rome burns.”
The judge will give his speech to lawyers from Resolution, formerly the Solicitors’ Family Law Association, in Brighton.
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I do not agree!! The P.C.loonies and Civil liberties brigade along with zero benefits for being married have all helped. When smacking became tabboo the rot started. Because of all this rubbish we now have teachers who can't teach. Policemen who can not police and parents who can't parent. Imagine what it will be like in 20 years time. I know all kids should not be tarred with same brush so please excuse me generalising. It is one thing to teach safe sex to kids but surely they should be taught and encouraged not to do it, and if they do do it they should be punished not rewarded. When a child tells police he is too young to be arrested, he knows he is doing wrong. This is only scratching at the surface because the complete answer is to re-instate 'COMMON SENSE' . All these things contribute to the breakdown of family life which in turn encourages others to jump over the fence because being anti social or a drug/alcohol abuser will get them more benefits as will being a single parent
Tiny, Birmingham , England
I absolutely agree with the Judge. I am glad someone at last has the courage to speak up about the root cause of the increasing social problem with today's Britain. Blair's New Labour policies on marriage and family life has also a lot to blame.
The Goverment must encourage, through it's policies, for marriages to happen and last long. A happily married couple will raise children to respect family and neighbours and the law of the land much better than a broken down family or a single parent no matter how much they try ( with few exceptions of course).
Bashir, Wood Green, London, England
Mr Justice Coleridge - thank you for your common sense views - you are a "voice crying in the wilderness", but let's hope that someone, somewhere, takes notice before all is lost!
Milo, Uckfield, UK
I do not believe this for a second.
I am from a broken home (my parents divorced when i was 9) and my siblings and I have grown up in responsible adults. My son is from a broken home (I have never married) and he has just left university with a law degree.
It is irresponsible parents (among a huge factor of other ails), whether they be single, married, together or not, that are to blame for this breakdown.
These children/teenagers/adults have no respect for anyone or anything. They are given every possible human need (money, shelter, healthcare, education, etc) without any consequence. They want respect but do not give any. They want the latest phone but are not prepared to work to get it.
The verbal abuse, mindless violence and murder must come to a head soon as things are getting worse each day in this country.
Jenni, London,
I applaud Mr Justice Coleridge on this insightful speech which will undoubtedly resonate as undeniable truth to many. As a teacher and one who has contact with homeless people I can vouch for all that Mr Coleridge has to say. I would like to add a personal note - I believe that family breakdown has become progressively more prevalent since the country effectively 'turned it's back on God'. History bears witness to this. The task of reinstating the family unit seems daunting if not impossible in the present climate. I have no doubt that the measures Mr Coleridge suggests will be valuable but the ultimate remedy for the family unit is a country whose heart is towards God.
Mhalpin, Las Vegas, NV
It doesn't matter what any of these people say. Until the government stops paying serial childbearers, ( note well, not parents), to produce children who are then dumped on the state nothing will change. The problem lies with THIS government. Changing the government is the change we all need to see. Their social engineering hasn't worked.
judy, Liverpool, England
In answer - this and the last few Governments have done all in their influence to disassemble the family.
The fey fashion of the nineties "socialists " has broken us.
robert everitt, wolverhampton,
Pre-maritial sex is first made socially acceptable, and a few years later you find that everyone, aside from a few eccentrics, has had sexual intercourse before marriage. The next stage,which has already been reached in some inner cities, is where divorce is socially acceptable and there are almost no intact marriages. Finally you will reach a stage where no children at all live with two natural parents, and then there is no easy way back, because the next generation have no example of stability to guide them.
Malcolm McLean, Bradford, UK
How right he is.
Liz, Bristol,
Too many selfish people giving up and leaving kids in broken homes while persuing their own personal pleasures in life. Others trying to persue careers rather than devote time, and yes, some loss of income to bringing their children up in a stabe caring home environment. This is coupled with a system of benefits and tax breaks that give no credit to the married couple and penalise the single income families by not allowing the transfer of tax allowances between married couples.
If you are not prepared to sacrifice a lot of your time, love money and career then do not have children, they are for life not just a few years.
PC, Fife,