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Good on them! This story highlights the absurd and arbitrary moralising taboos that our society likes to construct around sexual relations. Emotions between siblings are complex, people are complex. To deny our complexity, as Christians would have us do, is absurd. Live and let live. Richard Burdon, Nottingham
Totally disgusting. Both of these people needed help to believe this was normal and OK. How could anybody say that this seemed to be a healthy relationship? It’s no different from a father or mother having sex with their child! Do we think that is OK as well? Shawna, Nashville, US
This is like Sodom and Gomorrah. Just because the parties involved are OK, should society accept it? You forget that you are not living on an island where you can set your own rules. Legally this is wrong and there’s a reason why the law is put in place. Kenny, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
If incest were to be allowed, for one happy girl there would be 10,000 unhappy ones. John, Southend
While I don’t advocate incest, I don’t see who they were harming (obviously when they were single). Both were consenting, used precautions and stopped when they got into committed relationships. As long as they didn’t run the risk of procreation there’s no harm done. Well done for publishing this. Jennifer, Chorley, Lancashire
Incest, like absinthe, though intensely pleasurable, cannot be justified in a civilised society. Father Jonathan Obliseque, London
This is a breath of fresh air. I had a relationship of sorts with my sister when I was aged between 14 and 17. As a woman myself I always had pangs of guilt and we have never discussed it since, but it helped me in my own relationships later in life. We are now both happily married with children. Kelsey, Yorkshire
My brother did the same to me growing up until I was 14 years old. I was too young to remember how it started and exactly when. I know I was about 4 years old and I know how it feels. We are still close, like it never happened and now, 25 years on, it’s like it was a dream. Jenny, Willmar, Minnesota
To those who keep saying “but they’re consenting adults, what’s the problem?”, they weren't “consenting adults” when they started this relationship. They were 14 and 15, ages when hormones rule over intellect. Would you be OK with your kids having sex with anyone at that age? Jina, Colorado Springs
Incest is bad and I am surprised some people have the guts to support it as being “harmless”. Soon someone will be praised for having a “harmless, intimate” sexual relationship with their pet. God have mercy! David Kimbowa, Kampala, Uganda
If this is not wrong, then mother-son, father-daughter sexual relations can’t be wrong either. Sometimes I wonder why we were given reasoning faculties! S. K. Lin, Kuala Lumpur
I don’t think it is wrong, it is just something I would never do. For those who are saying, “It is wrong”, that’s absurd. Can you determine what really is right and wrong? There is no right or wrong. Romel Salcedo, Hemet, California
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People keep on saying that it is wrong, but is it really? Is it bad for some reason? If two siblings are in love, they are in love. They have no control over it. But people need to stop looking at the bad side to look at the good side. If you think it's wrong, you better have a really good reason.
Michelle, Washington D.C., USA
I see that it is wrong for a mother-son or father-daughter relationship to take place, but a brother-sister relationship just doesn't seem wrong in my view. If two people love each other, why should it be "wrong" or "unjust" or "unholy"? It's like how in the USA gay marriage is illegal.Its not wrong
Clarissa , Washington D.C, USA
theirs nothing wrong in it, as long as they use protection and have no intention of having baby's as we all know that would lead to misery. i wouldn't even class brother and sister relation as incest as brother sister intercourse goes on every were, i know my self and seen what happiness it can bri
jon, portsmouth,
If my sister and I weren't as close as we were, I think we would have missed out on a wonderful sexual experience. She wanted to see what a man was looking at her and thinking, and i was her best friend, we grew up but will always b bound by our secrets. im glad she wasn't afraid to want to play.
billy, westbury, Us
i think it is perfectly fine as long as they are both adults. after all if we all started from adam and eve, than arent we all related anyways? most would have some sort of thought if they would just stop worrying about other peoples thoughts! i have never done anything but i do fantasize about it.
kim cunningham, frankfort, usa
I see no problem with this event. As a biologist the problem is only mental. Think of it this way: If you and your sister/brother were the only two humans left alive on the planet would you two interbreed? Assuming that both your sister/brother are capable of reproduction.
Bradley Kester, Stayton, United States
I don't think it's particularly right, it's something I could never do. But I don't think people should be condemned and shunned for having one of these experiances. Providing that the participants are concenting adults and used protection.
John, London, England
The cultural Marxists have come closer to killing off traditional mores than I thought, as evidenced in the comments. They are having more difficulty normalizing zoophilia and pedophilia, but it isn't for lack of trying (NAMBLA anyone?) As Lenin used to say, one step forward, two steps back.
Mr West, USA,
Disgusting!! Yes I also believe they both need help. For those that are saying nothing is wrong w/that, what's next these two will marry other people and have kids and start to teach them they can have sex w/anyone even their parents? what will you call that?
suzy, london, canada
Reading this article and the reader comments, I'm surprised no one sympathizes with "Alison", the brother's wife. I doubt the brother told his wife about his relationship with his sister, but she clearly suspects their intense intimacy. How would you feel in the wife's position?
Cecilia , Boston, USA
Genesis 19:30 thru 36 When Lot and his two daughters left Sodom they went to a cave in the side of a mountain. There both of his daughters made love with their father, and both had children by their father. The Bible goes on to call Lot a good man. How can he be good and tothers be bad?
Larry , Kansas City , usa
This is the result of media portraying that women is only for sex and major purpose of women in this world is to atract men by using her body no matter in which relationship they are-this thing is turning us worst than animals who involve in an intercourse only for pro creation
ali, london, uk
Incest became a crime because of defects in resulting children. Now with such ease in birth prevention, it is becoming acceptable.
But I do wonder would animal siblings mate? And with what results?
San Ying, Montreal, Canada
This is a perfect example of just how lost our society (the western nations) has gotten; absolutely nothing is wrong so long as it feels good.
Is it any wonder why countries that still have strong moral and social beliefs are fighting so hard against "Western Influences"? I don't think so.
Steven D, Fort Wayne, USA
Sex, is to provide LIFE, not pleasure. Why no babies after all that sexing? Murdered by abortions? God's Rule said in beautiful words. "The Lord, is the giver of Life," not promiscuos play.' Life rewards those who discipline actions with happy, caring children; only need for sex.
Joe Spenner
Joe Spenner, Stayton, U.S.A.
sometimes siblings get together much later in life as adults. i have been with my sister and we have enjoed it. whats the problem? mcpdl@aol
michael, new york, usa
I feel incest does no harm if both are at age they can make own desesion and follow proper birth control.
Jim Rhynes, Holly Springs, USA
This is not a touching story of a healthy relationship. It's the story of an immature girl whose raging hormones took over and a drunken guy who "loves" his sister but not enough to stay with her, and a girl who, now abandoned, is consoling herself with memories of feelings glorified by immaturity.
Anna, Philadelphia, PA
Something i regret not doing was having a relationship with my sister and i keep going over and over in my mind what could of happend because i think we would be much closer now if we did.
I still see her every now and again but its like talking to a stranger now.
sibling love should not be frownd o
mike, durham,
I'm wondering why should we unrelated people harshly judge them. It's the same thing with lesbian/gay. Let them & their family decide. We stranger don't have any say on that. It's difficult enough for them without us being mean. And they did the "right/normal" thing in the end anyway.
Devina, Jakarta, Indonesia
Incest may be wrong in the eyes of the old fashioned generations but modern times have in some ways broken down the barriers of imorality. Is it wrong for two cencenting people not to enjoy each other? Forced incest is wrong and I agree that has to be stopped but consensual sex is not.
richard, Maanchester, England
I know that this is kind of an unpopular thought, but using only "feelings" to tell whether something is right (or even a good idea) is really not a great move. There are reasons that incest has been taboo in almost every society...just google incest and see what happens. Learn from history, peeps
beck, Stevensville, USA
It is wrong at some point because having so many men out there in the world why would you have sex with your brother, but I don't think anybody has the right to judge them because all individuals in the US are free to do whatever they want to do. It might be that they feel secure with each other.
Patricia, Maryland,
My sister and I were lovers. I was her first and we loved being together.
She would come to my bed everynight after our parents went to bed. I would have love to never given her up. I still wish we were lovers.
John
John, St. Louis, , Usa
Have we all forgotten the true outcome of sex? Procreation? "Taking precautions" is not a guarantee - many, many pregnancies occur with the proper use of contraceptives. Then what? End the life of the child, who was conceived through no fault of their own? Society has lost its collective mind!
Therese, Chicago, USA
well i think it should be the people involved choice if there of age they can make there own decisons
tim, st,charles, usa
It is quite simply wrong, even if they believe it to be ok. It isn't. I would suggest they seek counselling.
JuliaChandler, Kent, United Kingdom
It sounds a good deal safer than chasing some stranger at a disco. 14-15 is exactly the age when young adults do need to begin finding out about sex.
G Davies, Somerset, England
I have to admit, if a friend told me something similar had occurred with their sibling, I would assume that some deep emotional or social problems were playing a role in their choices, probably because this situation often goes hand in hand with more negative triggers/consequences.
Alex, Toronto, CA
I don't think it's wrong if it's consensual. As for the question "...if you found out that your brother...", my opinion is that I respect their choice, provided they understand what they are doing and feel okay with it. Discretion in this case is required as it may jeopardize our family life
anh, Hanoi, Vietnam
my sister and me used to flirt with one anouther but nothing happened because we were aware of what people thought of it but i do know of a couple who did. theirs nothing wrong with it as long as the couple are about the same age and its consensual. its fairly common and can be healthy i understand
mick, durham,
I'm glad to see someone speak out from personal experience on this issue. In those cases where there is no abuse, and all parties concerned are genuinely fully informed and consenting, I see no ethical problem. I would allow such a couple to marry freely.
Victoria Silverwolf, Chattanooga, USA
I think if both brother & sister are adult & it is consensual , then neither the state nor the society should prevent them from engaging in this relationship.
Anwar Fahmy, Cairo, Egypt
A 'child' who can have their own children is really an adult, whatever the arbitrary age of 'adulthood' happens to be in the west. Recognise adulthood at puberty, hand over responsibilities to begin their maturation, and stop treating them as kids and then labelling their resentment as adolescence.
Greg Lorriman, Leatherhead, UK
The condemnation of facts without showing any empathy is wrong, but any anthropologist could tell that this issue would bring up a flamewar.
Donald Axel, Vejby DK-3210 , Denmark
It is just disgraceful and further evidence of moral decline in our country...enough said!!
Jean , London, England
The line should be drawn at anything other than truly consenting behavior. Nature doesn't get it right because in nature sex and procreation are tied. We can decouple them.
Loren, Las Vegas, USA
jacqueline;
because he locked her up and repeatedly raped her. plus they had children. No one could argue the irresponsibilty of siblings having children from a scientific point of view,but as a relationship,I believe,its no one elses business. The only thing I feel concerned about is sex so young
Emma, london, UK
If this was 'alright' why all the fuss about the father and his daughter in Austria? No this is wrong.
Jacqueline, OUNDLE, United Kingdom
To all those people saying that is harmless I ask you, would you be happy if 2 of your children were regularly having sex together? And where do we draw the line? Parents and children? Grandparents and grandchildren? I think that if nature and genetics deems that it's wrong, then it probably is.
RW, Madrid, Spain