I think she's brilliant.

Nikki, Nicosia,

What a wonderful article! I thank the woman the wrote it and praise the beauty of female sexuality. The only thing that doesn't add up here is how our society is twistedly afraid of the honest expression of sexuality. We want to use sex to sell & manipulate but attack every genuine expression of it

Joshua, Atlanta, USA

Paxalot.....A woman prefers a pulse followed by an orgasm and not just a vibrator. You have alot to learn about female sexuality.

Christine, Sacramento, USA

Lady, it's called a vibrator - costs next to nothing. Get one.

Paxalot, Ottawa, Canada

Somethng doesn't add up in this story. The woman says that her husband and she had a great sex life and yet down bellow describing Justin's candles and his attention, she poses a question: "how many men still be doing that after trhee years in an ordinary relationship". Apparently her husband did.

Elena, NY, US

The good lady has her head properly screwed on. She has the situation under her control; that is the way it should be. If she obtains the satisfaction she needs from such an arrangement, then good for her. Everything is clear, both parties understand the arrangement and no-one is hurt. Surely, this is an example of good honest dealing, No betrayals, no affair behind a partner's back. Ideal! I only wish I had the staying power for such an occupation!!

Derek, Baliwag, Philippines

I think that this is great. Good for her. She has found something that works for her, is not destructive, is enjoyable. The money aspect is an energy exchange thing and, as everyone knows, is necessary for any relationship. There has to be some kind of energy exchange that works for both parties. Money is not the root of all evil just like men/women are not the root of all evil, either. Here, money works for her, rather than an emotional payment or laundry or whatever. She's been married, she's has a working relationship with her kids and family and friends. Way to go! If everyone were as honest about energy exchange in their relationships as this story, we'd all be happier - or else screwing our lives up differently. Kiss!

Barry, St. Louis, USA

It's fun to believe we can be just as happy by taking the easier route. We now in our hearts that it's hollow, lonely, and unfulfilling, but it's fun to believe that wickedness can bring happiness. The women all praise her saying, "Good for her, but I could never do that." The author writes to convince herself. I don't feel judgment; I feel pity.

Paul, Pasadena, California

I think this is marvelous. The lady in question has definately thought it through. Who is to say wether it is right or wrong, the answer is different for everyone.
I myself have been divorced since my children were very young, they are now grown up.
I have never remarried and believe this could be the answer to my prayers.
We are like a classic car, we all need a good service now and again.

Stacy davies, cardiff, uk

Completely ridiculous to pay a man for sex! And the other way round!

Stan Wang, Boston, USA

I hope for the protection of her dear family, she is having safe and protected sex.

Mike Slaughter, Altamonte Springs, Florida USA

Justin is not exactly a great name for a Male gigolo and certainly does not sound value for that money!

Rosanna, Vancouver, Canada BC

Unsurprising outcome of the feminist struggle for equality.
Entertaining fad.

A Skeptical Empiricist, London, England

now how bout ..getting paid for sex ..ever think of that?why waste money, when there are loads of me who would pay to have sex with you

rob, az, us

Oh, brother. Women love to vilify men that pay for sex. But when they do it, it is considered a "lifestyle choice". The sexism in this world is rampant, along with the double-standards and hypocrisy. Men that pay for sex are considered sick, perverted puppies. Now isn't this endorsement special?

SGA, Brandon, FL

£200 for one hour?! You must be crazy. I know guys that will do the same, probably even better, for less. Wake up lady, you are been had in more ways then you think.

Fabio C, London, UK

how come when its woman paying for a man ..it doesnt sound as sleazy.

rob, az, us

Hey, if this works for her then more power to her. As long as she is happy, then who are we to judge her choices?

Akinyemi, Miami, Florida