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A couple have divorced after the husband was caught having a “virtual affair” with a female character in an online game.
David Pollard and Amy Taylor met in an online chat room in 2003 and married after discovering a shared love of the internet game Second Life.
In the game, players create characters known as avatars, which then interact with others in a virtual world. To his wife's horror, Mr Pollard's interaction included virtual infidelity with a female character playing the role of a prostitute. Ms Taylor said yesterday that her husband had been guilty of the “ultimate betrayal”, even though he had never met the real person behind his online affair.
Mr Pollard, whose Second Life character is called Dave Barmy, and Ms Taylor, who calls herself Laura Skye, apparently spent as much of their marriage interacting on Second Life as they did in the real world.
Ms Taylor, 28, filed for divorce on the ground of unreasonable behaviour after her husband admitted falling in love with the virtual female character. She discovered the affair after a rare break from her computer. When she returned from a nap she caught a glimpse of her husband's avatar in a compromising position on a sofa with a female avatar.
She said: “I was so hurt. I just couldn't believe what he'd done. It's cheating as far as I'm concerned, but he didn't see it as a problem and couldn't see why I was so upset. He said I was just making a big fuss and tried to make out it was my fault for not giving him enough attention.”
The couple met in an internet chat room in May 2003 and within six months Ms Taylor had moved from London to Mr Pollard's flat in Newquay, Cornwall. They married at a register office in St Austell in July 2005 and held a virtual wedding for their avatars in Second Life. While their online characters are young, and slim, in real life there is a lot more to Ms Taylor and the balding Mr Pollard.
Ms Taylor's suspicions were aroused in 2007 and she hired a Second Life private investigator. The virtual sleuth, called Markie MacDonald, caught Dave Barmy in flagrante and he apologised to his online and real world wives.
Ms Taylor said: “It has been a very difficult time. I am now just trying to move on with my life. People find love in lots of different ways. Ours was a very serious marriage. It may have started online but it existed entirely in the real world and it hurts just as much now it is over. His was the ultimate betrayal.”Mr Pollard, 40, said yesterday that his former wife was more interested in her life online than she was in him. “If I wanted to spend time with her I had to ask.”
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One word.....sad, sad, sad, sad, sad people! As a budding solicitor at least I'll get paid for the increased divorce rate!
Helen F, Bristol, UK
If they were getting all their relationship needs fulfilled from each other online, why couldnt they satisfy eachother later, in real life? I find that inexplicable. Other than that, this is a rather disturbing trend. I mean, if this is the work of us, just think about the gen next
S Junaid, London, UK
Demented.
I use the 'net regularly, but have never felt the need to create a fantasy existence online, however bored I may get.
As someone else said, thankfully they didn't have any kids.
I'm so glad there are idiots like this about, though, makes me feel saner in comparison.
L, London, UK
This has got to be the dumbest thing I have read in a long time. Both of them need to get a real life. Not a "Second Life". GROW UP.
Richard, Trenton, United States
It's a strange story to promote as there certainly are other things more noteworthy.... but I do have to agree that you CAN meet in unexpected ways, and online relationships can work out.
My husband and I met 9 years ago, on a MUD called Acropolis. We've had our issues, but it is a "forever" thing.
Apollia, Mendocino, USA
You have to be joking? The sanctity of real life superceded by pixelated existence now carries more merit? Honestly, folks, if people in the real world can't make your day, you've got some serious psychological kinks to work out....
Richard, Dallas,
this is the beginning of the end...
Stu, London,
People prefer virtual sexual fantasies with strangers instead of an actual relationship in real life?!! Hilarious! Dr. Freud! Calling Dr. Freud!
Kelly, Gig Harbor, USA
I'm literally laughing at this. 2nd life is truly for people that fail at their first.
Tedward, Gleeton, Ohio
Crackpots of the world, unite!
simony, Haywards Heath, UK
Good God, grow up you sad, sad people!
Pete, St Albans, England
It's not just happening in Great Britain. We were married for 23 years, and my soon-to-be-ex had several affairs in SL. His avatar was a woman and was having lesbian sex. He wanted to bring her into our private life, when I said no, he asked for a divorce. It's going to cost him ....
Linda, St Louis, USA
The mind boggles....
Jonny M, London, UK
I was one of the first 'Private Detectives' in SL several years ago. The fact that this is a mainstream story now is pretty funny. This goes on all the time and I would guess several hundred real life marriages have been wrecked as a result of virtual relationships.
Bruno, Las Vegas, USA
You're surprised at this?
And I'm surprised that Laura Skye was surprised - SL is a soap opera bigger than Dynasty and Dallas put together!
Mandy, Durham, UK
So who gets all the Linden Dollars?
Frank Upton, Solihull,
When my wife told me about this yesterday I thought that she was joking. I am clearly missing something, but, i am too busy getting on with real life to have the time necessary for a virtual life - even if I wanted one! Presumably the taxpayer foots the bill for the court service as usual?
Mike Lloyd, Stoke on Trent,
Another silly Second Life story - I met the love of my life quite by accident on SL a few years ago. We went from SL to email, to IM to webcam to meeting each other in the flesh for the first time - and it was the most exhilerating experience I've ever had (and I've had a few).
Yvonne, London, UK
I'll be driving a little more carefully in GTA from now on, because surely if virtual infidelity can cause actual divorce, virtual car accidents can cause my actual insurance premium to increase.
Julian, Twickenham, UK
The do realise that Second life is only pretend don't they?
Maybe only their avatars should have got married and divorced. It would have been cheaper and easier. Obviously there was very little interest in a real adult relationship.
Emma, Canberra, Australia
Oh, for God's sake. At least they got divorced before they had the chance to have, and then ignore, any children.
David, Bath,
I'm struggling to take this seriously.
Uche Onyeabo, London,