Jennifer Howze
Win a fitness package worth more than £3,000

Is bitch a four-letter word?
The New York City Council thinks so. It's trying to officially albeit symbolically ban the use of the word. Councilwoman Darlene Mealy of Brooklyn introduced a measure on July 25 that would make the term verboten. The move follows the council's ban earlier this year of the "n-word" (as the New York Times refers to it). Councilwoman Mealy calls the term deeply sexist and hateful. But some New Yorkers aren't so sure.
“Half my conversation would be gone,” Michael Musto, the Village Voice columnist who writes about celebrity gossip and the club scene, told the New York Times. "We toss it around with love."
“I think it’s a description that is used insouciantly in the fashion industry,” Hamish Bowles, the European editor at large of Vogue, told the paper, while ordering sushi in the Condé Nast cafeteria. “It would only be used in the fashion world with a sense of high irony and camp.”
In recent years the words has become more common, not just in music with "adult" lyrics but in mainstream TV shows such as Sex and the City and in permutations such as "beotch", used as an endearment as well as insult. Lindsay Lohan was recently pictured wearing a t-shirt reading "Skinny Bitch!"
"If you're an 8-year-old it's a great idea. If you're a 28-year-old it's silly," says Tula Karras, a 39-year-old journalist who lives in Brooklyn and has used the term with her friends. While she recognises the ban is about respect, "you really can't police linguistics in that way."
Even Councilwoman Mealy, who introduced the measure, acknowledged that its use is widespread. "Even council members are saying that they use it to their wives," she said, giving a curious insight into the marital politics of New York's ruling class. So far 19 of 51 council members have signed on to the ban. The Council's Civil Rights Committee is expected to debate the measure next month.
Its inspiration - as with so many things these days - is hip-hop music, with ten rappers cited in the legislation. "Ho" is also banned in the same bill. (No word yet on whether "Hey, ho" is bandied across council members' dinner tables as yet.)
It has launched a semantic conversation that extends beyond the Empire State, with bloggers and commentators questioning the constitutionality of banning words, as well as analysis of the words themselves: "First of all, ho isn’t a word, it’s slang," according to the blog Wake Up America. It continues: "How did we go down a road where banning words is okay, what has happened to our constitution?" "More of the nanny state" said a forensic psychologist blogger in Tennessee.
Some pondered the implications for the prestigious Westminster Dog Show which uses the term in its official programme, while a blogger on Two Babes and a Brain considered the impact on an upcoming visit to New York City: "Guess I better start saving my bail money".
Several saw the measure as part of a clamp-down on speech in general, referencing the recent firing of radio talk show host Don Imus. Imus was removed from his show on CBS after a media storm following a broadcast in which he called members of the Rutgers University women's basketball team "nappy-headed hos".
Times Online Property Search will help you find it
Industry sectors news at a glance. Interactive heatmap, video and podcast
The inside track on current trends in the charity, not for profit and social enterprise sectors
Read our exclusive 100 Years of Fleming and Bond interactive timeline, packed with original Times articles and reviews
Everything the Business Traveller needs to know to make a better trip
Shortcuts to help you find sections and articles
05/2005
£13,500
08/2008
£109,950
2006
£10,750
Great car insurance deals online
£Excellent+ executive benefits
Torres and Partners
London
£49,229 - £62,035 pro rata
Charity Commission
London/Liverpool/Taunton
Alstom Power
Europe
Six Figure
Rolls Royce
Midlands/Europe
From £89,950
Great Investment, River Views
Special Offers now available
New Year in the USA!
.
Cruise the Islands of Hawaii - Pride of America
List your property with two leading travel websites
Great travel insurance deals online
Contact our advertising team for advertising and sponsorship in Times Online, The Times and The Sunday Times, or place your advertisement.
Times Online Services: Dating | Jobs | Property Search | Used Cars | Holidays | Births, Marriages, Deaths
News International associated websites: Globrix | Property Finder | Milkround
Copyright 2008 Times Newspapers Ltd.
This service is provided on Times Newspapers' standard Terms and Conditions. Please read our Privacy Policy.To inquire about a licence to reproduce material from Times Online, The Times or The Sunday Times, click here.This website is published by a member of the News International Group. News International Limited, 1 Virginia St, London E98 1XY, is the holding company for the News International group and is registered in England No 81701. VAT number GB 243 8054 69.
Okay let us all call women female dogs then, this is rediculous it would never happen the constitution was written for a reason believe that or not.
Shane, Port Deposit, Maryland, USA
Again First Amendment! People Can't Ban Words They Don't Like If That Is The Case I Want To Bad The Word 'THE' or 'A' Because I Can Because I'm More Powerful Than You I Hold A Government Office!
Drew Scamihorn, Englewood, Florida
Hello FIRST AMENDMENT!
Abel Estraviz, Portland Oregon, USA
refering to women as female dogs is offensive. how could it be cute or acceptable in a civilised society?
Mary, Sydney, Australia
Banning the Word in the form of a ordinance or other legislative form will not obliterate it's usage. Take a drive back to the twenties and see how succesful Prohibition turned out. Not so Good!
I think the word is degrading when used to describe women. When used in the proper respect as in Dog Shows it is totally appropriate.
What bothers me is the Political Correctness issue we are actually talking about these days. It's not alright to call some one the "N" word; and aparently it's not ok to call some one the "B" word. However, it's deemed perfectly ok to use phrases like "Jesus Christ" and "God Dammed" and others that devalue God and the faith of millions woldwide. What's wrong with this pitcher? Have we gone so far off the path of what is right that everything is acceptable. The world's view is that It's all out there for the world to see and if they do not like it, they should turn their heads or plug their ears? NO! I pesonally value being considerate to other peoples values
Steve, Elmira, Oregon
i think that all of this should be looked into deeper. What happened to our freedom of speech? what happened to the peoples rights? everyone in their lifetime has said the word bitch. its not even a big deal. its a word. when is the government going to stop and realize that they are slowly taking away our natural born rights as american citizens. Arent there child molesters and murderers out there that they could be trying to catch instead of banning words from us? everyone is still going to say it, so why waste the time trying to make it bad, when we could be doing something constructive with our time.
Hope, Silver Creek, New York
Hooray for thoughtcrime! Let's ban words like "very [good]" and "excellent" and instead use terms like "plus [good]" and "doubleplus good" too!
Alan R, Jonesboro, GA, USA
laughing out very loud..
this is crazy talk...
i wonder if the enlightened Darlene noticed the bumble-bee car in the transformers movie..
the little bee toy hanging from the car's rearview mirror says ''bee-otch'' or ''bee-atch''...it was there for a laugh and it worked.. i did.. the wee one i went with didn't twig it.. he's 9..
if it's good enough for the biggest film of the year thus far..
(hoping this doesn't get the movie banned in NYC...)
M Griffiths, London , England
This poor little council-lady is the type that gives feminists a bad name, as she's saying that women are frail little butterflies, ever at the mercy of big bad men. She's a Victorian, and a pathetically puritan one as well, a tight-lipped schoolmarm. Bet she has a tight little bun on her head, wears her black satin floor-length dressed buttoned safely at the collar and likes to rap knuckles with a ruler. It's too bad the Left took over this image from the Right so hungrily. With "brains" like this on the Council, maybe it was a mistake to give women the right to vote after all.
David Pabian, Los Angeles, CA
To attempt to ban centain words simply because someone doesn't like them is absolutely the silliest thing I have ever heard of. As for the word bitch, it is what a female dog is called, period. I have been involved in dog showing & breeding for over 16 years and all dog people refer to their female dogs as bitches, and their favorite ones as the house bitches with a great deal of fondness. There is nothing ugly or objectionable about it. To think otherwise, one would have to assume that person has a warped mind and wants to rewrite the dictionary for us all.
Peg, Brookville, USA
are they serious!? like we don't have more important issues to worry ahout. when they start telling us what and when we can speak we are really in trouble. people better wake up.
s.baker, fayetteville, us/ar
People need to get a grip. A word is a word, is a word. Am I the only one sick of all the tree-hugging, goody-two shoes that are taking over this country? What ever happened to freedom of speech???????
Boo Dooley, Myrtle Beach, USA/SC
trite, cheap political ploy for attention - and the world bites.
DanO, Mount Vernon, USA
For those of us that have to deal with Home Owner Associations and Condo-Commandos, the mentality of Ms. Mealy is all too familiar. This scenario of taking a pet-peeve and escalating it to a "real issue" is simply a display of not understanding how to use your authority. As a function of neighborhood politics it is, at best, annoying. However, when raised to the level of City politics, it begins to consume valuable time and tax dollars. Perhaps Ms. Mealy needs to digress a grade in politics and would be better suited as an officer in her neighborhood government where bad decissions will just be annoying.
Don, Chattanooga,
HO HO HO, Enjoy your jail time Mall Santa.
Max Power, Newark, NJ
You've got to be kidding?! You can't police what people say in their personal conversations. It's common sense to keep your mouth uncluttered with 4 letter words while speaking in a formal gathering, but personal conversations are another thing. What's next, policing your thoughts?
P. Green, Woodbridge, US/VA
If a bitch is a bitch, then its a bitch.
Richard Morgan, Pontllanfraith, Gwent
Is this most pressing problem in NYC? Good to know things are going so well.
JoeM , Rochester, NY
The word bitch is a term of endearment when referring to she who gives birth to many. Its association with canines . . . I have learned urbanly. I say ban the word bitch, and tolerate the next one until we can ban that one from certain modicums of media as well.
M. Coniglio, Gloucester City, US/NJ