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Parents are letting their children wander around cyberspace with no protection or supervision, according to a study published this week.
Despite government warnings that children going online can be vulnerable to bullying, paedophiles or images of sex and violence, two-thirds of families have no parental controls on home computers, according to the website Mumsnet.
Such controls, either built into computers or on separate software, can block specific sites and material, and limit the time spent on terminals.
In a study of nearly 1,500 parents, Mumsnet found 70% of teenagers were allowed unsupervised access to the internet; 37% of teenagers had a computer in their room; 35% had talked to strangers in chatrooms, and 18% of parents had no idea if their children met strangers online.
Justine Roberts, co-founder of Mumsnet, said: “Our audience is quite net-savvy, by definition.
“I am surprised by how many people had done nothing to control or supervise their children’s use of the internet.”
More than half of parents said they were worried about the online content their children might encounter, with sexual images the main concern. A fifth of parents of 10 to 12-year-olds were aware their child had seen sexual material.
Last week, the Byron Review, a government report on child safety online led by psychologist Dr Tanya Byron, recommended better education for parents.
A report out this week adds a concern from young people themselves – that surfing the internet is harming their interpersonal skills.
Jonathan Kestenbaum, chief executive of the National Endowment for Science, Technology and the Arts, which carried out the research, said: “Employers are anxious the obsession with qualifications and online skills is obscuring social skills.
“We found young people were saying the same thing.”
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Comparing opening bank vaults to open internet access for kids is pointless. Banks can only lose by doing so, whereas the potential negatives of internet access are balanced by it's benefits. Surely it's best to prepare kids for the world they're entering, not just hide it from them. Give them the benefit of your moral, intellectual and emotional perspective as a basis for what you feel is acceptable, then trust them to lean from their own experience, guided but not dictated by their parents, just as you once did.
Jason Milner, Colchester, England
Wow, what a very irresponsible way to raise children!
B.H., Ocoee, FL
"Parents must trust their children in order for the children to trust them."
Huh? Do banks have to trust their customers before their customers can trust them? Open the bank vaults in order to make bank customers more trustworthy? You are just repeating a mindless cliche.
Jim Fredrickson, Seattle,
I have always trusted my children and not limited their access to the net. I have told them - especially regarding sex and drugs, that they make choices and deal with the consequences, both positive and negative. All of my family is net aware and computer literate.
By seeing what folks are so afraid of, the children put it in perspective, especially drugs and sex. Violence is much more a problem for television, "sports", and news.
I would worry far more about video games, but again, the children have to learn by experience, or they won't learn at all. I will trust them.
Now all of my children are responsible adults. They have seen the best and the worst of the net, and are living their lives successfully.
Parents must trust their children in order for the children to trust them. Personal responsibility must be enforced early, in order to learn the art of free living.
Net censorship is a VERY BAD THING. A free internet is the only available answer to controlled media.
Mike Harrison, Hartford, Ct., USA